I have been posting very little on Curezone lately, - I've taken a little much needed break. However I do check in on some of my favorite forums once in a while and even post a thing or two.
I don't have anything to add to the Christian young lady's dilemma, because anything that could be said has already been said by you and Lightbringer, as well as McCarty and others.
What I would like to say though, is that I have come to really enjoy and look forward to your posts. Being the Mediterranean blooded girl that I am, I wish with all of my heart that I could see you in person in order to give you a long hug. A cup of tea and a few select healthy goodies would be nice as well. Just wanted to let you know that in case you ever decide to take that tour of the country, you might know that you have a genuine friend here who would open up her heart and home to you.