and they are off!!!

shopping...

okay, let me ask.....no matter how depressed I got, I was (almost) always KIND--yep, prided myself on that one...silly me...anyway the question....

by being so sensitive, kind, considerate, etc etc (not bragging, really) did that model that behavior for them, or just teach them to be INCONSIDERATE? Or more likely, will some of them model after my behavior and some will use it to be inconsiderate of others? I guess I'm looking to blame myself AGAIN.

It took them two hours to leave, took my almost that long to get food in my belly and deal with everthing going on--they still ALL look to mom, then rebuff a great amount of what she(me, da MOM) suggests (SO WHY do they ask????) and to be honest, by the time they left, and no hot water left, and all the "fun" of a big family that is raised not honoring the fact...oh they are back...forgot something, can't find something...don't believe me that what they are missing is already gone....sigh...it is EXHAUSTING to be part of this family....
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