Re: I've really screwed up!
If if do tell him it won't be for a long time. In a year or two, it might be something we can both look back on and laugh about, but not this soon. Keep in mind that we're only about three or four months into dating.
As far as asking him to take off his glasses, that wouldn't be the same as what happened in the woods. If we're just sitting on the sofa kissing, he will usually take them off. If he's wearing a shirt with a pocket, he'll put them in there and if not, he'll either hold onto them or set them down somewhere he can find easily find them. During those times there is no real change in his behavior. There have been a couple of playful incidents where I took away his glasses and would move around as he tried to find me, but those only lasted a few minutes but he knew that his glasses were safe and he got them back when he asked for them. Not quite the same as him believing that his glasses were lost and that he wasn't getting them back.
Maybe I'm making too much of this. I just don't know. I've never been in a situation like his where I could be rendered helpless so easily. I imagine it would be hard for anyone, especially for a man.