Maybe turning 30 is bugging him. You know how men try to sort through things before they share them? Well, maybe you could give him that reminder that he's still your hunk by being ready for his arrival from work tomorrow. You may have already tried this, and you may have better ways to light up his life. However, try having rose pettles strewn from where he parks his car to the door when he comes home. Then, meet him at the door wearing something special he likes. Have a warm bath drawn with a few rose pettles in the water for him. Have some candles lit in the bathroom with some romantic music playing. Soothe his tired muscles with a reminder that 30 is even better than 29. While he's bathing or after you bath him, have a candle light carpet picnic ready for you and him to enjoy with pillows thrown around the floor for him to lounge on as you enjoy soft music by candle light. After you all eat dinner. Have dessert (**wink). Next time, maybe you can send him on a romantic treasure hunt. Remember, honey. He may be the head of the house, but you're the neck that turns that head. Enjoy!