Re: new relationship advice
Hi Abalina,
Ya, three weeks, that isn't much time for a person to sit with the feelings and figure out how the navigating could have gone a little differently and how they can do it next time.
There was a goofy little book called "The Rules," and I didn't necessarily like it but it did make me ponder. One of the things it mentioned was, What if you were to let him make the calls? Like, all of them? For one thing you'd never have to feel blown off.
One tiny thing I've noticed about men in general is that they really like to do the navigating, and when one wants something more he'll figure out a way to let you know.
So sure, you're not being unreasonable at all wanting something a little more warm and cohesive and some preferred customer treatment. At the same time, for your sake,
I also think you're really wise to give him space and be very light with him!
Let us know how it goes,
A