Well, you certainly can't force him into marrying you if that is not what he wants. If you both have strong different beliefs on the subject and you don't see either one of you changing your mind about it, I would move on to find someone who shares the same family values that you do. I waited around for over 5 years for my last boyfriend hoping he would, or I could change his mind about marriage. Never happened. I have been dating a new guy for a little over 4 months and we are already talking about getting married and starting a family together within the next year. That 5 plus years was a great learning experience for me. Now if the guy I am dating does not want the same things as I do, time to move on to find someone that does. Why settle for less?????