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Re: What Is The Thinking Here?
"My ex always had a problem with my guy friends, and it eventually helped push us apart because i felt like he was trying to control me and he didn't trust me. he treated me like i was a cheater or something when i had never ever done that. Being that you guys obviously don't live near each other, it's understandable that she needs company and companionship, and i don't think it matters whether your friends are guys or girls."
Case in point. You are divorced now because of your insisting on keeping guy friends.
Sorry but I don't think any normal red-blooded male would truly be okay with their love going out with a guy friend on the weekend. If they are it's probably because while your out with yours they are out with theirs...wink wink.
And why would a guy choose to hang with a married woman anyway? I think your X was smart...you couldn't put him first in your marriage and that's a big no no.
Rolling my eyes at the "she needs company and companionship" comment....then get a dog for cripes sake.
I don't believe for one moment that you wouldn't have a problem with your X hanging out with the girls, that is , unless you were pleased with it because it freed you up to hang with the guys.