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What Is The Thinking Here?
Hello All-
Currently I am away from my girlfriend and will be 'til March. We keep in touch via email every day and also talk a couple of times a week. In the last couple of weeks I've noticed a trend starting to develop here. Every Friday night she is going to the pub with this friend of hers. Turns out he's a guy. All she says is that she's going to the pub with a "friend". She leaves it at that, doesn't give me a name or anything. Not once I've never pressed or asked her about it though. Anyways, this past weekend she also met up with her "friend" on Saturday night as he cooked her dinner. All she said about that was I'm having a "friend" cook me dinner.
Since that weekend I've talked to her on the phone twice and when she's on she always seems tired and yawns a lot. As opposed to before, where she was always giggly and excited to hear from me. Acts almost as if she's disinterested. I told her to give me a call on Friday and she told me that would she would give me a call on Saturday instead. What would you think of this? I think I need to give her some space so to speak...
Now by no means do I expect her to act like a hermit and not go out and do things, but I'm questioning why it always has to be with this certain guy and not any of her girlfriends. It may be a friend but when alcohol is involved I think that only increases the possibility of something happening, friends or no friends, especially when I'm not physically with her right now.
Furthermore, if she's doing something with a girlfriend of hers she'll always refer to her as a girlfriend as opposed to guys who she calls friends. It's seems as if lately she's starting to see more and more "friends" the longer time we spend apart.
And the kicker is she tells me that when she goes out with these friends she is always telling me remember how much I love you and I'll always be yours.
If anything I think it's a classic example of while I'm away she's starting to play. To me a girl who is in love would not be doing this..
Thoughts...ideas...let me know...