I have been dating a guy for a littel over a month he started out perfect everythign great. then a week went bye and he didnt call, come see me , was never home when i called etc., then out of the blue he shows up and gives a lame story of where he had been. Promised it would be different and he would never do that to me agina .. well you can probally guess he went home and another week went bye and he was never any where to be found. so i thought we were over and i have had a guy friend that i have been messind with off and on since about march he called and wanted to have the type of friends with benifits fun so i did. well they next day the boyfriend shows up with an enagement ring and proposed. well i didnt except cause some things have got to change before i do that. now that he knows my guy friend with benifits is back in the picture he calls me and if i try and call him he is always at home or where he says he will be. what do i do? do i give him a chance or move on and have my friend with benifits till i find one i can be happy and treats me like i need to be treated..