Ummmm....why don't you re-read what you just wrote???? Why would you ever disrespect yourself in that way? Hate to say it but you are being used. Married with a second child on the way???? I hate to be harsh but do you really think he will leave his wife for you? He already said that his family is #1. You are not family....you are the OTHER WOMAN....aka....THE MISTRESS. How would you feel if you were in her shoes and you found about about you? Not good I would guess. Find your own single, unatached guy!