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Re: jealousy just means that you have low self-esteem.
 
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Re: jealousy just means that you have low self-esteem.


ty, i agree with most of what ur saying, i am setting myself up to be played...i didnt lose the friend to jealousy...her boyfriend fell in love with me and i fell in love with him...so now i feel as if the same thing might happen to me... ok, so how do i improve my self-esteem? how do i become not so dependent upon him, so needy for his attention? he suggested counsling for my jealousy problems, but the thing is we live an hour away, we both have a child at home and our scheduals dont match for us to get together during the week. He's not just another boy freind, im 39 and i was married for 20 yrs and then i met him. he asked me to marry him and presented an engagement ring to me a month after we met. we only see each other on the weekends and i dont ask his every move and i have gotten better, i dont ask if hes talking to anyone else online anymore and a few other little things i use to do or say...im just trying to cope and deal with these feelings i have, its become very overwhelming. I know that it will be about 5 to 6 months before my daughter and i can move down there with him and that bothers me also. I suggested taking a break, but he doesnt want that, doesnt think that would help the situation and im not sure if i could handle that at this point. so im just totally lost and i dont want to be so emotionaly dependent upon him...help
 

 
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