Re: very jealous...i hope i dont get bashed for this.
also, now that you are becoming jealous your boyfriend is probably not even feeling 100 percent comfortable and secure around you anymore. when that happens it puts your relationship with him on shaky grounds because we thrive on being comfortable and having security in relationships.
you have to be confident with yourself and like abilina said, try, try, try to not let your jealousy come out. visualize a stop sign in your head at the onset of feelings of jealousy.
i have had to give my sister this advice when she gained 20
pounds and became more insecure about herself. i could even tell that her insecurity with herself was affecting her boyfriend just by the way he was acting..........he looked and seemed more tense and on edge. since i told her to just carry, be herself and not worry about how she looks, i can definitely tell that her boyfriend is back to normal, AND SHE IS TOO! :)
good luck,
adie