ok, i met my current boyfriend in may. we met through a very good friend of mine who was in love with him. i didnt want her to find out about my relationship with him and i really didnt want to hurt her or lose her as a friend. My boyfriend wanted to tell her from the begining, he didnt have any feelings for her, but i convienced him to wait a while...he would put her off by telling her, lets be friends and lets take things slower. well a month later he told her, she went balistic of course and hasnt spoke to either one of us since...Him and i have a great relationship, the hard part is we live an hour apart and only get to see each other on the weekends. the big problem is i am insanely jealous and insecure...i accuse him of seeing others or looking at other women for no reason...i have become very redundant on the issuse with him and now he gets very irratated and snaps at me if it comes up...I think this comes from having him cover up his relationship with me so my friend wouldnt get hurt...does that make sense? maybe i think he's doing the same with someone else and this time im the fool? do u think he has good reason to be irratated with me when my jealousy rears its ugly head? he says hes not sure why he snaps at me, but he knows its not because he doesnt want me, he says he loves being with me...so im just confused and not sure how to deal and overcome my jealousy and trust issuses?