Re: A little advise from women please
It is not exactly that, once a liar and cheater, but there is a sort of relationship that "works" between you, she finds in you something that she is confident with and she comes to have it. The problem is that she does it after drinking, and she seems not to control her emotions, in fact, you two are in a whirl of emotions, and you need to understand and control that,and try not being passionate, both of you, to build an meaningful, strong, relationship on stable bases.
No,It is not sure that she acts this way with another man, it seems that she comes to you, because you two have something that you fuel, there is a urge, yeah, yu must know something important though, the urge for sex for a woman, is a token of an emotional void and a lack of affection and love, that's not about having sex like guys do, having fun, and they don't care after, no, that's about finding a way to be loved and cared,that's about trying to find a way to be herself. At least, it really seems to me.
So be aware of this and try to understand each other and work out this aspect of her personality, she needs to calm down, and instead of going for sex and make it emotional for her, maybe try to calm her emotions and undestand her, if you can. The alcohol is not a solution either, and it shows once more that she has a lack and a problem.
I don't know how she reacts and behave though, perhaps she is very difficult for you to endure this, and she has too much problems for you to resolve. In this case, it is better you let her alone and go your own way.
In fact I think she needs to resolve her spychologic problems and find in herself the solutions, maybe with a therapy. But don't let her abuse you either.