I guess your right....its just I feel pressured to fine one for a few reasons. 1. because I am already so inexperienced with guys 2. Everytime I see people they say so "do you have a boyfriend yet?" Family, friends,EVERYONE! It just makes me feel like there is something wrong if I don't have one. I mean I do want one on my own, but I want someone that I need :)....if he exists...