Re: Do most people cheat ? answer to Jwhite
hi Jwhite,
Sure, you are right to listen to your heart first and I understand that when one speaks of a part of his experience, there will be many answers that won't fit to the situation, just because those people do not know you and the situation in its whole, so they will react with their guts and their own experience and moral codes, whatever ...
And at the end, noone has any interest into your story, but you, so you are the one to know if you are happy or not, and what makes you happy.
I think that the perfect relationship is just simple to describe : when people are happy together and feel that they are loved and respected and cared like they need it. Then all the rests are the problems that every couple have to face, at a moment or other, and this too is about loving and living in couple, as long as it goes both ways and the two are happy together.
So all the luck for you in your relation, and be happy.