You know Jwhite, you don't ask the question, but I have been reading your last mails and found that you seem to be an honest guy and trying hard to be good with your girlfriend, while she doesn't seem to be on the same process of wanting to please you, as you mentioned she again went with her ex-husband and you seem to be sad about it. Now I wonder if you are not too good, and she takes you for granted.
You certainely don't deserve that. Anyway, I hope you will make whatever you can to be happy yourself, for yourself.