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Re: Do most people cheat?
 
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Re: Do most people cheat?


Welcome dana, you asked a popular, one that I have asked myself a few times. Personal opinion is what you will find here so use them as you will. My personal opinion is that there are people in this world who have grown up in such a good environment that their self-respect and respect for others is so well developed that they don't need their ego's boosted by outside stimulation. For the rest of us, we struggle, make mistakes, try to correct our behavior, be good people, but still fail because we are not born perfect. There are some who think life is just a game, and those who get hurt are the losers.
I believe we all cheat at some point in life, but you have to understand my definition of cheating. In any game you play, cheating is to break the rules set up to follow in order to play a fair games. In a relationship our rules are set up first by our parents, then by the people we call our friends, then by our own ideals of what life should be like. Some would say, if I danced with another woman, I 'd be cheating. While others may think it's alright to lust as long as I don't touch.
I feel like a lie is cheating. My girlfriend cheated yesterday when she lied to me about were she was going, then went for a motorcyle ride with her ex-husband. She didn't go have sex, but she lied thinking I would get mad, but I got mad because she insulted my intellegence by thinking I wouldn't discover the lie!
So the better question is why do poeple cheat and what can I do to keep the person I love from cheating? Because the responsibility is not just on them, but also on you. That is what a relationship is about, caring enough to help those you love.
good luck with yours, ____ jw
 

 
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