It's easy to misinterpret on the Web -- I also wasn't scolding, more saying Hey, you sound pretty intense on this one, and I'm just not intense about it. And it sounds like you interpreted what I wrote earlier to mean things that I would never intend, so maybe we are both misunderstanding each other.
I've been enjoying this thread, reading people's thoughts on how men & women are. Some things I agree with, some I don't, but it's fun to see other people's ideas on it.
Ciao, or however that's spelled, I'm outta here, take care