Thanks. I needed a good thrashing! I'll just stop seeing/talking to her, and if she continues to call and pester me, I'll just say the "me or him" line. Done deal.
I can't believe I dwelled on this for so long... it was a miracle I found this forum and had the guts to write about this issue! I feel so much better, I can't even begin explain... Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh, and that video game--it was a futuristic setting rpg by Rainbow Studios (ATV Offroad Fury, Splashdown, Star Wars Pod Racer Revenge)... but it never got the green light by THQ. If it ever does, I'll be famous!