i have tried to hold him close and talk to him but he has built a wall around him that he wont let me in. He wont let me talk to him about how i feel or what we can do to make this work he just says i dont want to fight or will start yelling at me as if im not allowed to have feelings or opinions. I always ask him if i am doing something wrong please let me know so i can fix it but he never asks me that question. He has been told that he is depressed and he is using that for everything he has let it take over his life at this point. He has in turn made me depressed and feel worthless. i am so lost at why all is the way it is at this point i try and he doesnt and i cant keep hurting all the time because i cant talk to him and tell him how i feel.