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Re: my soulmate or is he


hope this message finds you in good spirits , i have been in a relationship for just over 10 years the last five of which have been very rocky . my girlfriend had an online affair at the start of this period of time . i still don't feel i really know why i feel i have been a good father provider & supporter of my girlfriend . anyway more to the point i was going to make is that for the last five years i took it upon myself to be responsible for everything as her interest in fizzled in her kids myself etc.
then last year i decided to "try" to put my foot down as things were not improving she wasn't working or helping in anyway she just sat in front of her computer ingnoring us all . i asked for her help as our finances were getting in trouble, i asked if she wasn't working could she at least help around the house etc. .
no changes , no response . i finally thought maybe something drastic but not destructive might help so i asked for a trial seperation to see if on her own she might realise how uninvovled she had been . i reassured her that i did love her but found it hard to exist as we were " living together but very alone " we seperated in may of this year , and even though we lived apart i still remained involved daily with her trying to help her find a job and get on her feet . over tha last few weeks the person i used to know her as started to emerge . this raised my hopes and i saw the possibilties of what could be the new beginning . my story does not end happily at this point last week she asked me to stop coming over and stop calling, that because of the way i have treated her over the last year that she did not love me anymore. i think the sad truth is that she had fallen out of love long before that. if you want to try to make your relationship work hold him close and talk openly & honestly share your caring thoughts tell him how you care and how you deram of the better days ahead . ask if there is anything you could do to help him and in return ask for his help with yours needs & concerns
waiting for fingertips to grow back to share more
good luck , shiver
 

 
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