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Why Do I not trust her?.....
 
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Why Do I not trust her?.....


Hi I am new here. This seems like a great place to spill my guts when I need to :) I'll try and keep this relatively short. I am a 22 year old male from San Diego California. I have been seriously dating my girlfriend for eight months. Everything is awesome and we are seriously considering marrige. The feelings we share for each other are so strong and we know that we were "meant" for each other. But, sometimes I just cant help but feeling insecure about our relationship. I know, and God knows that she would never do anything to hurt me. I guess that you are never sure of anything, but I know this girl and she is honestly the greatest thing that could have come into my life. But in the back of my mind I feel like she will find something better. I know that this topic is touched on like a dead horse, but I really want to rid myself of these feelings before we do decide to devote the rest of our lives to each other.
I feel bad about it ( and it doesnt happen often) but, somethimes ill give here a hard time about other guys. She goes to nursing school during the day.... and I know it sounds immature, but Ill get angry with her when I see her, asking her why she didnt call on her breaks and what not. to be honest it really does hurt my feelings. My mind will start to conjure up all these things that she could be doing, meeting other, hanging out with them, all the while forgetting about me. I also get mad at her when she tells me about men hitting on her. I dont know why I get upset..because at least she is telling me the truth, but there is nothing I can do.
I just wish that I could get over my insecureness about her devotion to me. Because I really do want to have an unbreakable relationship with her. Up to this point , my insecurity is the only drawback.
When it all boils down to it. Ihave a hard time trusting her. In this day and age there are so many unloyal relationships. where cheating is as frequent as going to work every day.
I want to trust her going out , hanging with her lady friends, and just doing things with out me having to be there. I dont know what steps I need to take to build this trust.
I apologize for writing all this. It kind of just spilled out, so sorry for the typos. Flet good to get this out though.
If there is anyone that would like to talk to me about this please write back. Or if this post sinks into oblivion that is also fine with me. Thanks for your time.
 

 
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