It's strange human nature that folks like "Mr. J" ask me to re-read a post because I may have gotten the wrong jist on a topic...then won't tolerate a reprisal. An apology is somehow a "backpeddle". How do people get like you, Mr. J? Was it bad parenting? Did some sweetheart say "No"? Were you passed up for promotions years ago and life hasn't been the same since? You rarely offer ORIGINAL insight, yet, like a soldier who hunkers down in the farthest reaches of the troop transport, you wait until the Marines clear the path before you venture out on your own. Then, and only then, will you stand straight and tall. What would you do without the Marines, i.e. the MtnnDewws of the advice world who answer questions straight up, who face the many challenges of the good people out there in Curezoneland? Is there more than three posts on the entire board that you have been the initial responder? Just asking. I do notice that you let others take the shots way before you, then and only then do you load your peashooter to the sky. I meet plenty of "Mr. J's" in the world...and like John Kerry's anti-terrorism plan...there's no substance, only whining about someone else's efforts.