I appreciate all the advice folks. All very informative and understanding. I know what you guys mean when tell me to talk to other girls and stuff and you are right, there is a possibility that some other girl may have qualities i realize i like that maybe Mary doesn't have. But it's already become clear to me that I'm going to compare every girl i meet to Mary and it's going to be really hard for them to compete with her in my eyes. But i guess that's a big part of making sure you pick the right ONE because i think that no one else out there should, in your eyes, hold a candle to your soulmate. Thanks to all of you for your advice and keep it coming.
-car_ramrod