Thanks for reading that whole mess Grog. I totally understand what you are saying, and we are taking it slow now. We are kinda catching up on the getting to know each other stuff which we should've taken care of before bringing our relationship to a more physical level. I already felt like i knew her somewhat cuz we've talked a little before, so that made it a little easier to fall for her, but we've already talked a lot for her having been back home for a few days. And i know in the near future we will begin to know each other pretty well. I was just thinking about it and it seems like a situation out of some movie ya know? The only thing is, I feel like I'm in charge of writing the script, and i just have to do everything i can to make sure the movie has a chance for a happy ending. I mean i know that she has to be on board with the way the script is playing out. But right now i just feel kinda helpless being so far away and just giving it time. I really don't have any other choice though. This is just a great place to vent a little, thanks for the advice. And keep the advice coming all.