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Re: Is it me or him?
 
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Re: Is it me or him?


it appears your persepctive of yourself (from your original post ) is low.. and based on feeling why would he want to be with you with acne..
you said he has np with it/ so it seems you are the only one that does..
as a woman i agree it can be devastating.. to anyone .. our faces are where we make impressions and where we most identify..and unfortunealy also build a great deal of our self esteem at because of social programing since birth.

it maybe that you are subconciously triggering fighting to get him
to prove to you that he does love you ..
when you yourself said he does not cheat and loves you lots.

I agree with Grog/ and you said you are starting there also about the cleases 8)
when you find yourself fighting.. stop and go get quiet somewhere and ask yourself honestly.. is this worth it?
is it soemthing so important that it needs a fight?
if not then drop it immediately... take some deep breaths go out/
appologise if you feel you must..
and then go do some thing pleasant .. take a walk and get good sun and reenergise and most of all .. love yourself.
your guy feels there is something to love..in you *
believe in Love 8) be the gift that you are.. and i think you will find you have a good man and you are wonderful 8)
it is not worth losing a good relationship over blemishes 8)
they will pass.. but he might too if the fighting keeps up/ 8)
everyone deserves and desires peace in thier own home..
it is supposed to be a place of rest and caring repose
*).. don't let your preoccupation with " i am not loveable because of Acne " make you lose sight of the truly important thing...
the preciousness of having someone that loves you for who you are 8)
you have a rare gem there..
Be Happy
Ami joi Benton
 

 
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