I can relate to the recent "Approach" thread. I'm a good looking guy, 33 years old, excellent shape as I've been lifting weights most of my life and decent personality I think. But I have trouble meeting women and going out on dates. I am quiet and kind of shy, but I think I'm starting to grow out of it. It may be to late now, because now my hair is receeding and it makes me look older than I am. There is a girl at work I want to ask out, but she is quite a bit younger than me. Should I wait and hope to find somebody closer to my own age. It is hard to do because most women my age are already married with kids. PS: I also don't like the bar scene. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.