I know absolutely nothing about martial arts except that HUMILITY is INTEGRAL. Humility is the foundation of peace, and, it's also necessary for healing (inner peace). Until the thinker decides to be humble and stop ragging people out, there can be no healing for him. He is preventing his own healing by refusing to admit that he needs healing, instead of spitting on those brave enough to face their demons,...A.K.A poetic justice (Kind of like the martial arts strategy of redirecting the force back at the aggressor). I ragged him out because that is what I felt (and I was being gentle at that), and have learned from past experience, that if I didn't, I would have been ENABLING him. I didn't mean to interrupt the peace, but, at that point, there was none.