Re: About my girl friend....or something like it....

Don't THINK that she is confused, KNOW it,she is definitely confused. BUT she calls you "TOO good for her" because she thinks the WORLD of you, and, no doubt, hopes that you would be her KNIGHT IN SHINING ARMOUR that would save her from " HERSELF and her "confusion (and everything that haunts her). That PURPLE stuff sounds kind of whacked out, but is probably something like "deep purple love". She has issues all right, but agree to be her knight in shining armour, IF you think you can hack it. Just telling her that should reassure her enough to make her want to treat you better. That's step number one. Step number two would be to get her on this site asking for help. My belief is that, if she is SANE, she doesn't need a psychiatrist, and that psychiatrists usually cause more confusion in a relationship because they are not IN the relationship. But don't PUSH her, only suggest it when the time is right. Your move, KNIGHT. Tweet