scared of surgery

Hi all! I was recently made aware by ultrasound that I have three small Gallstones in my gallbladdar. My Dr.'s advice was to "watch the stones" by having an ultrasound every 6 months. I don't want to "watch" them, I want them to be gone. I was trying to get a perscription for Actigall which is supposed to disolve the stones over a period of 6 mo - 2 years. I was told about this cleansing method by a friend then subsequently found this site. Has anyone actually had the stones show up on ultrasound and then have them absent on ultrasound after the cleansing? I have been in such a panic state of mind since finding out about the stones. I lay in bed crying and trembling over the anxiety of possibly having to have surgery if these stones grow, or multiply, or get stuck somewhere. I am 31 and have 3 children. My blood tests show that my liver is functioning normally, and that my gallbladdar is also functioning. What is the best resource for determining which of the cleansings and herbs should be taken for optimum results? Tweet