thank you so much for your responce, i have talked to an attorney, but it went now where, it makes me sick. my mother has been so sick the past eight months since dad died. long story, but thank you for being on my side. we have been under choro. care for many years. but not any more!!! i wont let them touch me again, my mother either. please stay in touch, and give me courage to do what is right!! thanks hun, i really need your support. you see, i am ill myself. so all the prayers you can send my way, would be great, i am printing out all of the posts i am getting, maybe that will help!! thanks again hun, please spead the word!!! liz