Re: Frustrated newlywed
If you really think that she goes to sleep satisfied and leaves you frustrated, turn the tables back on her.
You didn't mention whether she returns any of your advances, beyond cuddling. Which many women prefer to due, it makes us feel more loved, charished, appreciated. That we are not just a body.
You're already frustrated, bring her to the brink with out reaching the end and then go watch T.V. and let her stew. If she asks you why you are leaving start talking it out. There are definately some underlying problems, you just have to wheedle them out.
Vaginal dryness is caused by a number of things, dehydration, diet, or hormones. Try this little secret...
insert one finger all the way into her vigina, and gently but firmly press down towards her tailbone and hold for 5-10 seconds. This will signal the vaginal walls to secrete more fluid. You can do this as many times as you want and it will work. Just make sure your wife is well hydrated, give her a glass of water before bed.
Hope you can sovle your mystery.
Good luck!