Just Peachy, thanks for summing it all up.. What you said was right-on and well said!
Putting up and shutting up just leads to him being disgusted with you and further disrespect.
If he doesn't care about your feelings he doesn't care about your feelings. Don't fool yourself. Any human who is supposed to be your friend much less your lover, would care about not hurting you.. He doesn't and he doesn't care much about the truth it seems.
Move on.. seems like an empty well. If you told him and he did it anyway, shows no remorse, you can't make him care.