My wife and I just got married, and I have three kids from a previous marriage. I try to see them as much as possible, but it is hard. My ex-wife is into a pretty hard and heavy partying stage right now, and really tries to dump the kids off on anyone anytime. I take the kids whenever I can, but my new wife feels that I am jumping when the ex says jump, and doing what she wants so that she can go out. I have tried to explain that my ex is not hurting anyone but herself, and that the kids will see this in due time, but my new wife wants me to tell the ex no, so that she has to take some responsibility for them. Does anyone know what I can do, to make my new wife happy, and not tick the ex off?