Dinner party & BBQ? Oh my gosh! That will be rough! At the BBQ you could just stay away from the food and hang onto your lemonade drink while you mingle. But at the dinner party were you have to be seated with everyone to eat? How are you going to handle that? Yikes! Maybe you could just tell them your stomaches is bothering you from something you ate earlier or something? If you tell them you are cleansing then lots of people will ask a lot of questions and even find fault with what you are doing. That can be discouraging and you don't need it.