Whether you can have kids is the question every woman asks who has been trying. It's a whole lot worse when you are 30-something and then exponentially worse when you are 40-something. It is a pain that is very difficult to communicate unless you have been there. Martha wants to get better for herself but I imagine that her greater motivation is so that she will have a baby. So that's the first question -- is it possible. All of the hows and the whys follow.