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21 y
Erection problem (It is not organic but phsycological)
Hi im Eddie, im 22 years old and i am extremely scared that i have a problem maintaining a erection, this seems really strange as i think that i am the only bloke my age that i know with a problem like this.
For about 12 months I had stupidly experimented with street drugs such as amphetamines and weed. I have completly stoped and i only smoke cigaretts, which i will give up in the VERY near future.
I have been with my partner for over 2 and a half years and am very much in love with her. I dont know what the cause of this is (obviously, hehehe) but i think that it may have some thing to do with anxiety or something along those lines as i NEVER really have had any sort of a problem with self-gratification.
We have talked about the issue on may occassions and still cant resolve the issue. We only started to have sex recently so we have yet had one proper experience together and this is really painful to me because of my love factor for her, i want to express myself and i cant; i think it worsens everytime we attempt it as each time i dissapoint her my heart drpos lower and lower each time.
I just dont know how to relax... and not worry about pleasing her the way i do...
PLEASE, i am desperate for help as i am at the end of the road and have no more suggestions on what to do with my problem...