ok so i just found out last year thats the deal.
my s.o. says she never did anything to him but he remembers incidents of her molesting his friends since he was 8-9.he says he never saw anything but it would be locked doors and friends mothers wouldnt allow them to come over in anymore.
one time (before i knew this) i was cleaning her room and found a journal where she thought she was molested when she was really young but she couldnt fully remember.
now whats done is done.
we dont talk to her anymore.
but i worry about our future. if we have children will he end molesting them?
because i think i would have to kill him if that happened.
i also worry if she would try to get our kids if she found us. like try to adopt them out from under us claiming we were on drugs or somthing like that.
can she do that?