I guess I do have my son on a flexible schedule but never really paid attention if his nap times fell into the same time frames everyday. It really all depends on when he gets up in the morning. Usually he's ready for his first nap 2 hours after he wakes up but even that can vary. I like your idea of napping with your son. I did this yesterday and it was nice. I also like the idea of reading a book because I NEVER have the time to read like I want to. I have SO many books to read too!