Just to assure you that your post did not offend me in anyway.
I too believe that what I went through was all for a purpose.
At the time I didnt understand the way I do now.
I do know that it brought me closer to the Lord. I know it was all in his hands and plans. It has changed my life for the better and I feel blessed with the out come.
I know that through it all others have helped me and I have helped others. It feels good.