Unfortunate for you and others,most men are VISUALLY DRIVEN. Curvacious women are HIGHLY AROUSING. Because of this, they may be missing a great woman. It's good to hear you are working on your weight. With all the fast food places around, there will be thousands/ millions of overweight people around. So, it just isn't you. Working on it for health reasons is reason enough.Unfortunately, it has to be a life long commitment to eating whats right for you, getting it off and keeping it off. Diets don't work...changing lifestyle does. I wish you luck....you can do it, even if it is only one pound a week to start.Watch it carefully and no cheating. Don't give up...a man is waiting for you who will love you for the right reasons.....not all physical.