There are many men that are attracted to large women and a friendly personality.
If you have already prejudged all men, you may be turning them off with your attitude :(
But there is a turn off point when a person is grossly overweight like Dolly Dimples, it then presents obstacles if you are honest with yourself. Obstacles such as every day duties plus sex life.
I have seen people so overweight that they had problems reaching private parts in the bath or on the potty, it is then unhealthy and unattractive.
We are not all born with the same metabolism or cut from the same cookie cutter.
I happen to be thin, but I was born with a metabolism that I could always eat anything and any amount without gaining weight. Everybody is not blessed with that metabolism.
Those that ritually and continuously go on starvation orange juice or lemon juice fasts without nutrients is just another form of anorexia, and dangerous in long term.
Even when they become a skeleton and think they more attractive while pointing the finger at a larger woman. They should point the finger at their poor health.