makes perfect sense to me, your in love with your husband your enjoy sex with him and you feel content and relaxed enough to sleep peacefully all night or until he wakes up and wants more and your there for him, very welcoming. Feels great. But where is the big vaboom everyone talks about, I found out one night when my former husband and I (stilled married to him then, ) smoked a joint(marjuana) It was like the fourth of July. That told him I had to me totally relaxed first. Wow what a difference.