Re: How can I help my wife learn to ejaculate?

In my case, I didn't teach my wife how to ejaculate...she did it on her own. My wife has never been real sexual. She doesn't like any kind of oral sex, or anything too wild and crazy. We've always had a good sex life together and we've always enjoyed new positions. She does like toys, not at first, but she has always warmed up to them. Lately I've become numb so we've experimented with different positions to help increase my feeling it...pressure in the right spot. Our latest position has yielded her being able to reach Ambrosia.

She lays on her back and pulls her feet up and places them on my shoulders. I reach around her legs and she grabs my arms. I can really stimulate her clitoris in this position which has led to wonderful orgasmisms for both of us. One time I noticed she was excreating a tremendous amount of fluid. We both thought she had peed even though she had gone before we started. She was totally embarrased about it and I tried to comfort her by telling her it was part of our sexual experience. I did some reading here and found a post dealing with Ambrosia (female ejaculation) and realized that was what my wife was experiencing. We weren't trying to achieve it...it just happened. Now we have another level of sexual excitement and my wife...of 27 years...has warmed up to the idea and is enjoying it more.

Could I have taught my wife to ejaculate...I don't think so and I don't think you can teach your wife to either. It will either happen or it won't. Too many times we men want our wives to PERFORM in certain ways because of something we have read or seen. We need to be content with what we have and be thankful for our wives and who they are. I'm not saying couples shouldn't experiment with different positons, or toys, or activites...as long as they both feel comfortable with it and both agree to try it. The wife shouldn't be made to feel like she HAS to do something different if she doesn't want to...just because we want her to be like....... Tweet