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Is it supposed to hurt like that?
Hi,
My apologies, I hope this is the right spot to be posting this. I am new to these forum things...
I am 25 and just recently got married to the guy that I had been dating for 41/2 years before we were ready to commit to marriage. I am a strong Catholic individual and so sex after marriage is a big thing. Hence, our honeymoon two weeks ago was the first time that I had truly lost my virginity. (I was sexually assaulted when I was younger, but choose to ignore that piece of unhappy past).
When my husband and I were starting out, things were ok, but as soon as he went to put his "boy" in, it hurt soo horribly bad that nothing was accomplished. We did some oral sex prior to this set back but as soon as we moved to do more, we had to stop. The pain was unbelievable - I started crying and hurt the next day - and he didn't even get it in there. He would a little ways, and he had to take it back out.
Is there something wrong with me? Is there something that we are doing wrong that is causing the (for lack of a better term) discomfort that is occuring??
Thanks for your help!
AB