I am glad that you too understand. I agree with you "man is not made that way". He cannot seperate his conscious mind from his subconscious.
I would also like to repeat my point that addiction esculates. Someone who thinks they are not addicted today, may well be tomorrow.
I would also like to say that bringing other people into your bed (metaphorically speaking)by using p 0 r n while you make love, to help things along, makes the relationship a little cheap and tacky, and meaningless. This would turn many people off not turn them on. Bare in mind that the last two points are for the benefit of the other readers.