About 2 min. after my last post I get a phone call from husband. We stayed up considerably later last night and had a wonderful time together if you get my drift-anyway, it is not unusual for him to call the next day from work with a sweet comment about the night before, ect. Well this time the first thing he says is " Wow,are you as tired as I am today??!!!" We both burst out laughing cause, yes I am pooped but it was sooo worth it. THAT is the difference between now and 20 years ago. Twenty years ago it would have been "hey baby, wanna go again to night?" Now it is "hey baby are you as tired as me??" But you know what? I wouldn't trade it for the world.