has anyone done this before?

My husband and I are wanting to do an erotic couples massage. We have never done anything like this before and don't really know what to expect or how to "request" things. What we are looking for is a situation where we both get a massage but he then watches while I get a "bit more" from a female. I am not talking about strapping things on and stuff, rather some sexy massaging, some light fingering and a bit of oral while he watches. Has anyone had an experience such as this that you could share? I need some imput fast as this is one of our Valentine's gift to eachother. thanks! Tweet