The woman is not always "into" the kissing. My wife is not into kissing all that much. She does not like the down her throat, all over her face, wet kisses. She prefers the closed mouth simple kiss. Sometimes in the "heat" of things she will do an open mouth kiss but the first thing she does is wipe her mouth off. I prefer the more passinate kisses and they don't have to lead to more sexual activities.
This leads to a question...for the guys mostly...does the more passinate kissing lead to more sexual contact more in married or unmarried men (or couples)?